The other thing is that nothing is really that bad. You will deal with it - one way or another. It will pass. You will make changes. Or you will surrender to it.
Good things can come from a melancholy state of mind. Time slows down. Things can be more fully considered. Shifts in consciousness - that may prove valuable and beneficial can be initiated. Epiphanies that if you were having fun would not occur.
All of life is auspicious. Flavours of feelings. Bitter, sweet, sour, spicy... Life IS on your side. Allow your inner voice, your innate true self to lead the way.
(insert grand organ sounds here - and maybe some harp, yeah, some harp!)